You've likely decided on your band or DJ by now. Next, it's time to choose what songs you want them to play at critical moments. Music is evocative, so selecting the right tunes to fit your vibe as a couple and your wedding theme takes some thought.
There are three central moments for which you need to handpick music. Otherwise, you and your partner's favourite playlist is perfect during the rest of the reception.
Let's explore the most important times of the wedding, and how to choose music for them.
Keep in mind your music will need to be venue-appropriate. If you're getting married at a church, you'll need to chat to them about what they accept. Consider the hymns and songs that the church typically plays.
If you're having the ceremony at a wedding venue, you'll likely have more freedom. Still, it's helpful to check in with the venue coordinator about their policies for music.
There are typically two aspects to this processional. You'll need to first consider music for:
Some couples do a processional for the groom and groomsmen as well, or the gentlemen simply make their way to their places before the ceremony starts. Either way, you'll need to decide on background music during this time. Think about what you'd prefer to do regarding this one, and how it will work.
If you like the idea of a more official groom's processional, stick to a similar theme for both your songs, so there's a sense of cohesion. You can also choose one piece for all your attendants' procession and then individual songs for the bride and groom.
For the Attendants:
Music for the procession of the wedding attendants should be tasteful, and relatively soft. You can choose modern or classical songs, depending on whether you have a DJ, band, string quartet, etc.
For the Bride:
For the bride's procession down the aisle, you want to choose music that will make people sit up and take notice! Again, you can select modern songs, or something classical, depending on your venue and who is making your music.
Make sure the song you choose feels like you and represents who you are as a couple. Every relationship has its defining songs, think which one would be the most appropriate for your wedding day. You can choose you and your partner's favourite romantic tune, or one you both have a fond memory of.
Some brides like to choose their partner's favourite song and keep the music choice a surprise until the wedding day. That's up to you!
Remember to pay attention to the song lyrics. You want to choose songs that have a positive message about love.
When you do your recessional up the aisle after tying the knot, music that evokes celebration, delight, and joy is what you need. Even if you have a string quartet or a friend playing the guitar, make sure the tune they play is upbeat.
To choose a song for the recessional, think of songs that make you feel happy and exuberant. Songs that refer to triumphant love are perfect. As the ceremony's serious business is over, the recessional music can be more lighthearted, cheeky, and playful, if you like.
The music for the first dance is crucial, as it symbolises the journey you are to embark on together. You want to get off on the right foot and have your first dance feel empowering as well as romantic.
Your music for the first dance will typically be a modern song, as it will be played during the reception.
Consider romantic songs from your history, especially those that have a feeling of love as well as strength to them.
Aside:
Make sure your DJ or band knows exactly when to play the song for your dance.
Your wedding songs for the key moments are personal. So, take time to select those that are the most meaningful to you and your partner.
Have fun blasting your favourite tunes while you search for the perfect wedding music!
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